so ive (F28) never said that word to her (MtF29) or anyone before. im NOT homophobic. i always make sure to white knight when someone misgenders my girlfriend (she identifies as a woman even though she was born as a man) and i even correctly gender my trans exes (even though theyre bad people for reasons aside from the gender they identify as.)
heres the thing. my girlfriend is a frequent user of the subreddit transsexual masturbation club. its a place where trans people say transphobic things. sometimes she shows me posts and she also says the t slur. honestly she says it so much that it slipped out.
also, i didnt even call her the word. i was saying that someone said that there were like 5 trans holidays. i listed pride month, transgenders day of visibility, transgendered remembrance day, coming out day, and she chimed in with the fifth, Autistic Acceptance Day. i said "true! you know how those trannies are."
i said sorry right away but now she lightly makes fun of me! is she wrong to make fun of me even though i feel bad? or AITA for saying it and i have to put up with her making fun of me all the time now?
uj/ true story
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that age gap 😬 typical predatory trans NTA
NTA i too know how those trannies are
why can she say it but you cant? NTA they might identify as a girl but that is a mans hypocrisy
no, is it something she might like? maybe the problem was the timing of when i said it!
stfu she said that she doesnt misgender trans people on purpose. stop purity testing our allies
uj/ but seriously i was starting to feel like TA for teasing her!
rj/ smh shes all worried about saying tranny like i dont LOVE when people say tranny
i will never give up on my one true love, calling myself a transexual
uj/ for complicated emotional reasons, i really like calling myself a transexual, to the point where it feels like my microgender. but i dont get the chance much bc of the fact that its weird and has outdated connotations
i feel like id break up with my gf for saying troon but only bc its goofy and would give me the ick
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stfu she said that she doesnt misgender trans people on purpose. stop purity testing our allies