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So I donât really hate it when people misgender me?? Like, if someone gives me a compliment but uses the wrong she/her pronouns I still take the compliment well like.. I donât feel terrible when people just use she/her pronouns without any further reference to my gender.. and especially because I havenât come out yet so I donât mind so much..
But like when people make gendered assumptions about me based on my being AFAB or treat me differently, either misogyny or that annoying chivalry thing some of the guys I know do where theyâll be nice to me to my face then start making disgusting remarks about me the next second like thatâs when I get dysphoric.. or like when some girls talk to me about âboysâ I feel weirded out, because, hello, I am one?!
So yeah, anyone else feel the same way?
I do- Iâm ftm and I donât feel terrible hearing she/her because thatâs what I just have to put up with for the next 2 1/2 years but when someone goes like âgood girlâ âdarlingâ etc I go ew.
Someone at work called me lad and I went wow omg
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