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Hello! I realised pretty recently that im a boy, i turn 14 this spring and Im scared that im to young since i have not alway felt like this, i remember some Times when i was younger that i wanted to be with The boys because i would rather be "one of them" but ive not realised that im not cis since last spring maybe. Im scared that i would change my mind and just make a big deal out of something thats not real, but i have never felt something so strong either, i have so much Dysphoria and all. Before i came out people has multiple Times thought i was a boy and it has always just made me happy, but ive not realised this since yeah, last spring or something. Also, sorry if it came out wrong, if it sounds like im "scared of being trans", thats not what i mean, what i mean is that im scared that ive made a big deal about it, coming out, fighting with my parents, etc etc. When did you realise youre not cis?
I realised I wasn’t cis when I was 14 turning 15, but like two months after I turned 15 I finally realised I was a trans guy rather than other labels I had put on myself.
(Edit: I had heaps of signs as a kid- even some of my family members now come to me and tell me how they ‘knew’ I would be trans because of how I was when I was a kid- I just didn’t realise until my mid teens)
The self discovery you are going through rn can be so scary- it definitely was for me. Every feeling you spoke about in your post is feelings that I lived with and I’m sure many other trans folk have as well. Just know that you have community online to support you through this time with all that you decide to do. You are in control of yourself and being ‘not cis’ doesn’t take that away from you. Try your best to take your time, explore, learn and have fun! It’s all about feeling good and looking after yourself as best as you can (:
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