Hello all! Poly bi transman here. As the title says, I am looking to find a long term partner. Currently located an hour from Minneapolis. (Looking to relocate closer to the Cities within the next few years.) Cis okay, preference to trans folks.

To describe me: honest, sarcastic, and loving. On the shorter end (5”4’), average build, masculine, ginger, and furry. Communication and honesty is the most important aspect of me in my life, regardless of what relationship I am in. I am usually the person people trust to have an honest conversation where I listen, give solid advice if they want it, and comfort. My version of cheering up is memes, giving a good ear, and sneaking your favorite treats into random spots for you to find later. I’ll make you into a burrito with blankets and cuddle you if you let me. My love languages are touch, acts of service, and words of affirmation.

I have asked if there is a character that I most resemble from a movie or show: apparently I am Hopper from Stranger Things, but with a greater ability to express my emotions and healthily communicate. (Also, minus the drinking.) I strive to be a secular humanist: I attempt to understand, be empathetic, and find common ground. (With this, certain ideaologies/alignments/political alignments to be the antithesis to having peace in my life and the liberty to pursue it.) I acknowledge we will never have a true Star Trek utopia, but I do believe we can do better for the future.

I'll spend an afternoon fixing my truck, relaxing after by cuddling my cats. I spend a lot of my time watching videos, gaming on pc/xbox, and figuring out how to do new things. A few of my other hobbies: fishing, cooking, and lesiurely walks. There are more, but those are my favorites as of recent. Most of my hobbies are lower on the physical end. I work a physically demanding job in healthcare and have “hidden” physical disabilities.

I am seeking: friendships first. I am demisexual so emotional connection is essential. Ideally in a partner: someone is kind, honest, emotionally available, communicative. Is more dominant and kinky. Enjoys snark and dark humor. Close to me in age (30-late 40s). Shares some of the hobbies I do. Take care of yourself physically, mentally, emotionally, and financially. I’m more concerned with your ability to know/be yourself authentically than what your genitals/waist/wallet size is. Bonus points if you’re looking for a long term relationship that doesn’t demand marriage or cohabitation.

Because of several Reddit interactions: Not interested in people pursuing solely to experiment with their sexuality IE “never slept with a trans guy but think it’s hot” “attracted to everything with a cunt” “straight but you have a pussy so it’s still straight/lesbian” You get the picture. If you’re not queer, ya ain’t gonna have luck here.

My current relationships: I practice ENM. My NP is open to me pursuing another partner, but is not looking nor interested in finding another relationship. She would be open to meet potential partners and possibly forming a friendship.

If you are interested in chatting, feel free to reach out here. I am open to responding to chats on Reddit.