Hey there! I am a single 43 year old pre-op masc presenting Transgender dude. I am currently on T so there will be noticeable on-going changes. I am 5’5”, blue eyes, and shaved brown hair. I am fat, but I am actively losing weight. I have lost 172 pounds so far! There are current pics on my profile. I have several tattoos and piercings, which includes my septum, 2 lip rings, and my tongue.

I am laid back, open minded, and non-judgmental. I am a very blunt, honest, and upfront person. I can be a fairly crude & vulgar person. I tend to have a bit of a morbid sense of humor at times. I do love to joke around and have a good time, but I can be serious when needed. I am into the macabre and horror. I do have a 23 year old son who recently had to move back in with me (He is also transgender).

I don’t really have any preferences when it comes to looks or age. What I find attractive are qualities such as intelligence, kindness, humility, honesty, and just overall being a good person. I am Pansexual, however I am not looking to date cis men. I would also love to make some platonic friends who are in the LGBTQIA community. Gender/identity/orientation does not matter when it comes to friendships.

I do prefer to date someone who is clingy. I am a very intimate and romantic type of person and I love giving attention to and doing things for the person I am with. I am also an affectionate and touchy-feely type. Meaning I like to put my arms around my partner, hold hands, put my hand on
their leg, caress their arm, etc.

I am looking for long term, but am open to whatever. I do have a very high sex drive. If you are in the kink community or are interested, that is even better.

I am not looking to meet after the first chat. I would like to get to know one another a bit first. I live just north of Kansas City/Gladstone in Smithville, MO. I am looking for local. Must be 420 friendly!