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Hi hi! My name’s Sierra, I’m a 20 year old trans girl, looking for that super duper special person to spend most of my time with and be very clingy with! Also just some good friends that I can joke/hangout/game with, you can apply for that position, too, if you'd like. I’d say that I’m almost a complete shut-in, aside from work. If I have free time, I’m almost sure to be spending it inside on my PC, on my phone, rotting in my bed, or other NEET-ish activities. But, uhm, I really want to find someone I can spend a lot of time with and love and all of that dumb mushy shit, so I’d appreciate if you took the time to read through the entire post, thank you very much.
I want to be up front about some of my possible red flags (or bonuses), so here they are: I spend way too much time (the perfect amount) on my PC/phone and I have and ADHD/anxiety-riddled brain. I haven’t been able to keep any of the dozens of hobbies I’ve tried, so I basically just play games and hang out on Discord all day. I work only part time, but recently I've had full-time hours (this will likely change back to a few days a week in the future). I don’t have any drive to move up where I work, or go to school (I tried both of those things, school was an awful time). I’m, actually quite happy at the thought of living with pretty low income, within my means, only having the partner of my dreams and my PC to keep my company. Maybe a dog, as well! I also live with my parents (I'm not out to them) and am a terrible driver (Not to mention, awful driving anxiety!). I am on HRT, but I don’t present fem much at all. I have some fem clothing, but it can be difficult to feel comfortable with it at times. Mustering the motivation to shave my body is a challenge. Honestly, if I were ever kicked out, I couldn't support myself. I think that’s everything maybe worth noting. There's also the fact that I have terrible anxiety over my appearance, so it will definitely be some time before I share pictures of my face. Don’t rush me, I won’t rush you. Thank you. Maybe a decent chance I'm autistic, as well, so there's that.
Some more about me—I love texting/voice calling on Discord. If I really like you, I’ll probably want to do this a lot. Sitting in calls together for like, 10 hours at a time, watching anime, gaming lots, sleeping on call together. Vibing out in silence. Screensharing while we do shit, maybe. Watch Youtube or movies, anything really. I want all of that and I eat it up. When I have a partner that I’m really into, I like to do almost everything together. Of course, I still want to make time for my friends, as well, and there will be times where I'll need to l, just relax and recharge my batteries, but ideally, we'd spend the bulk of our time either texting/calling each other. I work in retail, so my work schedule can be inconsistent. Some weeks I work 5 days (like right now), other weeks I work only two days. I love checking in with people on my breaks and lunches, and will likely text even while I’m on the clock, sometimes, if it’s a bit slow. I’m pretty likely to send you stupid images, memes, hentai I have saved, cute anime girls, silly gifs, whatever the fuck is on my devices, just randomly. I love to be really affectionate with those I cling to, so expect a lot of that if we really click. Having that in return is probably necessary. Want someone I can have a good time/joke with about dumb shit. Also, I'm on EST. Someone else on EST is ideal. If you're based as fuck, though, I might consider another timezone.
Onto my interests, and other stuff. I play video games, but not a huge amount on my own. I can play for a lot longer with friends. Some of what I’ve played includes Fortnite (zero build), Apex ‘cause my friends play it, Warframe (I could be dragged back onto it…), Guilty Gear Strive, ROR2, Terraria, Minecraft, recently I’ve been trying to get into Satisfactory, but my ADHD idiot brain is pretty shit at logistics, so I’ve been having fun building spaghetti factories that look like shit. Lots of games we can try. I’ve been playing Last Epoch with my friend, but I’m not really a big fan of those kids of games. Don’t really like MMOs, too much, either. Puzzle games make me feel like my brain is made of slime, so I avoid those. Co-op games I’d probably be up for. Also, I do like anime. I read some manga, sometimes, too. FLCL is really damn good. Cool music, interesting animations, very cool. Gurren Lagann makes me wanna smash a brick on my head, it’s so motivational. Space Dandy is awesome, although it’s been a long time since I’ve seen it. I’m not super picky with what I’ll watch with people, so maybe we can watch some dumb shit or whatever else. I love manga by Shuzo Oshimi. Inside Mari I def remember the most, but Flowers of Evil and Blood on the Tracks were really poggers :3. I don’t really watch movies on my own, so we can do that as well, if you want.
For more relationship stuff, I want someone I can be myself with. Sometimes I wanna be really lovey-dovey, sometimes I wanna be silly/shitposty, sometimes I’ll wanna bully you for fun. I do like to joke around and text and call a lot, but I’m not always the most high energy. Sometimes I will need some recharge time, now and again. In the future, I will definitely want to meet up, but not in the foreseeable future. I’m tied down where I am for now, and I can’t really leave. I've always always dreamed of watching fireworks at night with my future partner, and I can't wait to find a co-dependent idiot to do this with. I really, really crave cuddles, and I’m going to want them a lot when we do meet. Physical touch is like, what I love the most, and I’ll want that all the time. At least, over Discord, we can RP the cuddles… I’m quite interested in puppygirl dynamics, but it isn’t a deal breaker if you aren’t, I just find the whole idea extremely endearing. Leashes/collars, barking on command, eating from a bowl… uhm, anyway. Not a requirement, as I said. I do want to be really mushy and cringe, though. Recently decided to throw my shame away and be as cringe as I can be, cause it makes me happy. Need someone who feels the same. I want somebody who'll be happy cuddling for long periods of time, just being by each other, like we're stuck together, or something. Seriously, I love this. Also like, someone who'd prefer to stay indoors with me, either with me or on our PCs together. Unless it's perfect weather outside, I'll wanna be inside. Please be ~19-23? Willing to receive messages from other people, but I might be a bit pickier.
NSFW stuff, I’ll want to like, sext, ERP probably, send each other hentai while we do that. Possibly on Discord call after a while… Now, I haven’t had as much interest in doing this stuff as I used to (It used to be a lottt…), but the desire is still there. I'm a pretty kinky/horny person, definitely something we'll have to talk about. I have almosy zero real life sexual experience, though, and I am a virgin. I'd say I'm a switch. There are definitely times I really want to dom and really want to sub, but I've recently been exploring my sub side quite a bit. However, we don't need those dynamics, if you'd prefer something more neutral. I can't say I'll be up for sexting every single day as I do enjoy doing things on my own, but somewhat frequently would be nice.
Anyway, uhm, I think that's everything I wanted to talk about. Please, read everything. See what you vibed with. Write at least a paragraph about yourself, and tell me what you liked about my post. I have the right to ignore your message if I'm not feeling it, or I don't like your profile, or whatever. Just try and be yourself, I'll do my best to be myself. Look forward to talking with you guys :3
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