🤘 Hellooo! I'm Tara (She/Her), a 26yr old demigirl from Appalachia. I'm a plus size, adrogynous, subby, lesbian, who doesn't shave everyday. I wanted to make this post to find some romance. I've only dated a little but I'm deeply romantic and I'd love to find someone to share that energy with. I also enjoy kink and to me, the trust and care that kink involves is very romantic as well. 🥰

Something to know about me is that I'm very neurodivergent. I'm autistic, I have ADHD, and I struggle with anxiety & depression. With that, I find that I make very strong connections with people and while it's what I prefer, it can come off as clingy. I have a lots of social energy and when I click with someone I like to be able to share it. Also I'm plural and while, in my case, it doesn't come up often, it's something I like to be upfront about.

My hobbies basically boil down to one thing. I'm a creative! I love drawing especially, but I'm also into writing, worldbuilding, poetry, crafting, and all sorts of other stuff. I'm also a massive nerd. I like weird movies, I love cartoons, I watch old anime, I play PC games (BG3!), but most importantly I adore tabletop roleplaying games (it's my autistic fixation 😅).

When it comes to my personality, I'm all over the place lol. I'm a mix of alt, goth, & punk but I like all sorts of style aesthetics. I love spooky things 👻 but I'm a scaredy cat 🙀. I'm a furry too. I'm also a big fan of fantasy of all kinds and I also really enjoy the cyberpunk genre. Basically, I want to be a vampire cat girl that lives in a castle in the woods but also has wifi. Lastly, I'm a huge dork 😁.

Kink-wise, I'm a brat, a sub (proof: 🥺), a kitten, and a little. Yes, sometimes I do age regress. I feel like a service top and a pillow princess but I've never done anything in person. I used to think I was switch and mainly dommed but recently had a sub revelation. Something I love about kink is the shared vulnerability and the trust that it takes. Because of that, it's not something I will want to do right off the bat but I do love discussing it . Some of my biggest kinks are: Caregiver/Little, Collar/Leash, Clothes (Cozy, Cute, Lewd), CNC, Exhibition, Free Use, Orgasm Control, Ownership, Pet Play, Praise, Shibari, Spanking, Teasing, Toys (Dildos, Strokers, Vibrators, Fantasy Toys).

What I'm looking for is a committed long term relationship. While it would be long distance to start, I would like to meet someone I could see living with in a year or two. I am monogamous and with my RSD symptoms and anxiety, it's important to me. As an inexperienced sub and little, I'd really appreciate a caregiver dom who can make me feel safe and help me explore. All in all, I just want someone that I can spend time with and find joy being around. My ideal romantic partnership Is first and foremost, a friendship. Someone that makes me feeled cared about and vice versa.