I'm Tara. A 26yr old woman from Appalachia. I identify as a genderqueer trans woman, I use she/her pronouns, and I'm a pan/lesbian (which to me, means I'm attracted women and other femme presenting people). I'm also soft butch, plus size, and I don't shave everyday.

I wanted to make this post to find a possible romantic connection, but I also don't mind making more friends. I've only dated a few times in my life and finding anything local is hard where I live. Something to know about me is that I'm neurodivergent. I have ADHD and Autism. With that comes really strong connections which I personally prefer. I have a lot of social energy and I like being able to share it with someone. I'm also plural so I have headmates. While it doesn't come up very often, it's something I want to be upfront about.

Hobbies and personality wise? Well, I'm a creative. I love drawing especially but I'm also into writing, world building, poetry, crafting, all sorts. I'm also a massive nerd when it comes to games. Video games, board games, but most importantly, tabletop roleplaying games. TTRPG's are a lifeblood of my creativity and even my personality lol. I'm also goth, I love spooky things, I fuck with fantasy of all kinds, cyberpunk is my shit, and if there's a mix of "cottage core/dark academia", I'd want to live there. Basically a castle in the woods situation. Oh, and I'm a huge dork who jokes around a lot.

There's plenty of more niche stuff about me but I also want to talk about what I'm looking for. I'm monogamous and while I'm presently looking for a long distance relationship, I want to meet someone I can see myself living with in the future. I'm also switch (leaning more sub at the moment) and I enjoy kink so I'd like someone I can explore both my dom & sub side as well as our shared kinks. But all in all, I just want someone to spend time with and find joy in being around. My ideal romantic partnership is first and foremost a friendship. I want someone to tell me about their day and all the things their interested in and I want to do the same. I want to feel cared about and I want to care about them too.

If any of that sounds like something you're interested in, then I'd love to hear from you. Please tell me about yourself in your message and let me know what made you want to reach out. Bye!