Basically like the title says I’m a 43 year old married (EMN) woman (she, her, hers) who is trans. I’m functionally a stay at home mom with an empty nest, so I’m deeply longing for some sweet pets to snuggle and love 😍❤️‍🩹😻😻

For clarification, I’m looking for IRL and in person. I’m in eastern Virginia, and while some travel is possible, if you’re too far that’s just not feasible for regular in person.

As for me physically, I transitioned a very long time ago and HRT was very generous, so I’m pretty maternal both psychologically and physically. But overall, 5’10, pale, long dark hair, dark eyes, bbw. If you really want to know about me, I have a long pinned post on my profile for general information.

As for who I’m looking for, well I had this idea I’m ideally seeking a bonded pair of adoptable (that means adults ONLY) pets, because I think it would be great if you were able to play together, and be less lonely or anxious when I’m not around, plus I think it would be adorable to see you play with each other 🥰

If you were a more self contained type then a single kitten, or pup could be delightful. If you were a single but sociable type, maybe we could find you another affectionate littermate at a later date.

Overall, I’m thinking we could have fun with training, treats, headpats and forehead kisses, hairbrushing and baths, you showing off your fancy dressup, binge watching our favorites, or you could laugh at my inferior gaming abilities.

I’m probably not good at being a strict disciplinarian, but a bit feral is okay though, as I think I’d be very good at gentling you with affection. Must be up to date on all vaccinations, and house broken through.

So far in life I have tended to connect more with other women, but femboys, catboys, puppyboys, etc are good too. If sweet-natured, and suitable for domestic ownership 😉

I guess as far as a sexual vs a non-sexual dynamic goes, I’m basically Demi so I would have to feel well connected emotionally before I could consider that type of intimacy, but I am a very sexual person. I’m also very emotional and soft at heart, and the people I care about I care about for life.

So despite the lighthearted tone of this ad, my deepest desire would be a sincere, loving, sustainable long term relationship.