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[MTF4MTF] [MTF4FTM] [MTF4F] (cis) [MTF4M](cis) looking for chat about relationship issues. Can discuss your dating experience
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redHairsAndLongLegs is looking for a male
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This is not dating post. But I wanna chat with people who are dating. I'm ~38 y.old straight stealth trans woman, I started my transition about 20 years ago. Was in three long-term relationships: lived with first BF, just dated with second BF, and married with third man.

He became abusive a year ago - we're 7 years together. But I can't divorce, I don't have anybody else so close for me emotionally. I still fill chemistry for his body. And loved his personality,how he was a year ago.

Because I don't want to date, or cheating him, I want maybe to dream together with somebody else about their future happy life, and discuss my past and their past & present dating experience. And hope together I can somehow help them find a true love!

Who are you? Literally anybody, if you want to chat relationship and dating experience. Probably it could be easier to speak, if you're straight cis or, especially, trans girl, but I'm sure, it could be interesting for me to chat about your lesbian or bisexual experience. Also, I wanna chat with men (cis or ftm), doesn't matter what is their sexual orientation. Ah, and you can be NB, for sure.

You can be cis man transadmirer, it even can be interesting to chat with you too, but usually my experience was not perfect. If you think, you're special normal, not "horny" fetishist who learn about trans girls watching porno, you're welcomed even speak about your dating experience with other TW.

Please keep in mind, I'm not going to cheat my husband, if you're chaser, and send me a dickpic, I'll ban you (sorry). But we can, if build a trust to each other, discuss even topics about sex. Honestly, I always felt weird that it's so difficult to discuss topics like this with other MtF: in my experience, usually it means that you want to date with them. Always a bit envied cis straight girls that they can do it by default. Unfortunately, my real life friends, among girls, usually didn't know anything about my transition. So, my conversations with them was usually not as bald honest, as I wanted to have them, at least I have not disclosed my transition to them.

But, if you're cis male, sorry, I could expect bigger level of trust in our potential online friendship, to feel free enough to chat with you about my and your past sex experience. I'm sorry to say this, don't want to discriminate anybody, but if you're such very special trans-admirer, who can chat something, excluding your fetish, you already know, that you're not like other men with your sexual orientation, and forgive me for this approach.

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