I posted this in the lgbt subreddit, but it got buried, so I thought I’d post it here.

I just recently accepted that I’m bi, after years of repressing that side of myself. I’ve been trying to ask myself a lot of the big questions in order to understand myself a bit better, so basically now that I have my sexual orientation figured out a bit better, I’ve moved on to questioning my gender.

I’ve always identified as a man, but not for any real reason other than that’s what people told me I was. I’ve never been very masculine, or at least never connected with the bud light commercial version of what masculinity is. I guess you could say I’m more in tune with my feminine side, I’ve always been a bit of an empath and into spirituality and stuff like that. I thought I was just like a sensitive guy, but I really don’t know any more. The only reason I thought I knew my gender before was because people told me what it was, so how do I know for sure?