I'm just so distraught. Please just take this at face value for me and give input if you've been in this situation before. I need to hear from other trans masc people on this one.

My bf (39) and I (41) have been together for over 2 years. I love him and I'm terrified too surgery will break everything. He has an issue with heavy scars. It's nothing personal to anyone; they just make him uncomfortable. Yes, he understands scarring is natural in 10,000 different circumstances.

This could end our sex life and, ultimately, our relationship. I have to choose and it's too difficult. Either way, I lose a part of me. I have to choose what will hurt less.

Thanks for reading. Support is welcome.