I know that I should talk about it with her more, since I never officially came out to her until now, but I'm extremely nervous. I'm also having second thoughts despite knowing that I want to transition for like a month and knowing that I'm not my agab for a year. I used to very much be in favour of having a more feminine body but now under the stress I'm not so sure anymore. I think this is partly due to how big a deal it seems to her, while I see it as just a cosmetic thing to make me more comfortable with my body, not that different in principle from piercings or tattoos. Tho I know that it's way more conplicated than that.

I also am afraid of the talk itself, and here I could really use your help. My mum doesn't really understand any of this, but she's generally supportive, despite that I don't really know what to say. How did you guys' first talk go? Do you have any advice?