So I came out around 2019 when I got on HRT. That was something I thought wouldn't even happen. And since then I haven't really done much in the "typical" trans process beyond changing my gender marker. It's very hard for me not to feel like I should be "farther" in my journey, especially when my friends are all getting referrals for surgery, doing their legal name changes, etc. (the legal name change is something I'm not even sure I want as my chosen name is just a derivative of my birth name, like a nickname. And it's eloquent and kind of unusual, as well as being the birth name of my grandfather who died from his addictions. I'm a recovering addict as well. And it's not an explicitly masculine name. And while I don't like being called it or going by it, having it on paper doesn't bother me a whole lot.) But I'm also in the middle of moving to try and get to a more liberal state. Does anyone have any advice for how to move past these feelings or get over this sense of jealousy and inadequacy? To add. I guess I kind of got farther than I thought I would to begin with and maybe coasted a little?