After many sessions of therapy and years of figuring things out, my eyes are open. I have gender dysphoria and it’s effecting my relationship with my partner (F).

I also believe I am more into men. Our intimacy is suffering because of it. She is a good person, I don’t want to hurt her. When we first started dating I felt more confident in my sexuality and gender. But like a cycle my dysphoria has crept up again.

I feel like I’m lying to her about who I am. She doesn’t deserve that.

How do I bring this up? How do I come out? What questions should I be prepared to answer?

Any advice helps.

Extra: I came out to her as bi when we first started dating I’m not sure if that’s the case anymore.