I was not sure what to label this as sorry if its not well labeled..

So I had no real concept of trans being a thing and I literally did not know NB was a thing. I was very far from being phobic in anyway but also completely not accepting of myself in any capacity, and I avoided being around stuff that presented me with that part of myself.

But I was arguing with some douche about sexuality and people identifying how they feel comfortable. They argued that you're either straight or gay. I argued against that. BUT... I did say that I do not think pansexual is very, I think the word I used was "right"? But I meant "inclusive". I made the point that if someone identifies as a women/man then they are a woman/man and that bisexuality already covers that. So my point was pansexuality is basically pointing out that these people are "different" and not given that same respect as their gender.

Nowadays I do not necessarily believe that lmao but I DO find it hilarious that I was obviously completely accepting of others being trans before I truly understood what it was, but I was clearly NOT okay with myself being trans. (Yayyyy for religious hatred, societal and familial homo/transphobia, and everyone bullying me... all of which I internalized. It took me many years to allow myself to be happy.) But anyways I just thought this was sort of amusing to think back on. This all happened 8 years before I ever realized and accepted I was trans(Basically the moment I understood what trans was I realized that I was trans. And then it took a few days to accept it. And then months to come out to anyone).