Idk, I just feel like it's really starting to get stupid. I've been out as nonbinary to my family for 4 years and they're still only getting it right half of the time on a good day. I completely understand it takes getting used to, because they knew me as cis for 20 years, but 4 years is a long ass time to get used to it. I lived with them for most of that time and I still visit often, so it's not like they've just barely been around me. They're supportive for the most part, they just "are super duper trying and having a hard time with it". I dunno. It's honestly really disheartening. I hate to get mad at them, but it's like, at what point do I get to say "this is goofy, put in a little effort, actually get it right consistently"?