My mom and i (24f) had an argument on Tuesday and so my mom tried to talk to me about it. She started by saying that she was tired of all the fighting between us. She said she is not invincible to the hurt i give her because of my actions and behavior. And then she just doesnt get why she gets this treatment and she just doesnt get why i act this way.

Honestly because of our relationship, I have started group therapy along with normal therapy and psychiatric help.

I agreed with her with how tiring the fighting is. However, instead of talking about a solution, she just started out by saying that she is the reason why i was adopted, she was the reason i found my colleges, the reason why i have health care for my autoimmune disease.

I tried to tell her that was manipulative and made me feel like guilty and a burden, but said that these were the facts. i told her she doesnt respect my point of view because she never considers how I feel or anything.

Then i yelled at her to please leave me alone and leave me alone and go away

And then she yelled back at me and screamed she wont be bullied in her own house anymore and if i dont wanna live here anymore then leave. Which i cannot do because I have no job and I am extremely depressed.