(I'm a Female in my 20s)

I've been gaining and losing weight obnoxiously and her treatment towards me depends on what I look like.

I can say that I'm pretty attractive when I am in shape so whenever that happens my mom just shows more interest in me like I'm her parade pony or smthng.

She likes spending time and going out with me more when I'm my best physically. She takes me with her to hangout with her friends only when I look decent enough and she just generally loves me more when I'm skinny.

When I was overweight she'd almost always be in a bad mood. The only things she would bother telling me would be:

"When will u start exercising" "You were so pretty before" "Stop eating" "You don't need to eat"

And yes, she's an Almond Mom. She's always been skinny so she can't wrap her head around how hard it is to have slow metabolism.