Good Morning

My younger brother has been silent which his sister in law is speaking on his behalf for dad. There are different siblings saying different things to dad anyways. He's looking to move also older brother is too demanding asking for in person meeting.I can't drop the ball basically since I got work, house and my own life too. My sister in law is saying my older brother is the 'saviour' however I will rather all of siblings to talk if they wanted my input or help.

Its getting too cumbersome already. In addition, I suggest zoom or google chat with siblings but older brother is not happy. He's retired and my sister is a housewife while me and my brother work as well. My younger brother is silent however he's telling my older brother informatjon that my sister and I don't know. It feels like elementary school.

Should I take myself out of the equation ?