How do you respond to a brother that hurted u and prevented u from seeing mom before mom passed away all of sudden ? I received and email saying that he wants to include me for when dad moves to a new place. FYI- dad wants all of us to get along even thought I was NC with my brother and sister which is helping me tremendously. My brother wanted to meet for lunch but Im totally terrified of him and my sister as well. In addition, im not sure if a phone call is worth it. He always want it his own way also he's the power of attorney for dad. Im okay with the power of attorney anyways. I just feel lost on how to respond. Anyone gone thru the same thing? I feel like I'm being put in the spot like a quicksand.