Update I tried the pantie diaper pantie sandwich and got an absolute NO from her. Which I get, it’s a lot. I may look into clothe pull ups. We will have the pee pads for the plane. Honestly she goes hours without going and without accidents. I’m m genuinely concerned about during take off and touch down when we have to DENY her the freedom to go to a potty. She doesn’t like accidents, rightfully so, she’s worked hard to get to the potty. Thank you for all the suggestions.

original Help! My toddler is potty training and has started refusing diapers and pull ups and will SCREAM bloody murder if she doesn’t want to wear them. She’s says they hurt or they ‘wobble’ we used to be able to put her panties on over and she’d be ok. But it’s getting harder and harder. She still has daily accidents. Worse. We have a trip in less than a month and we will be on two planes each way, each being 2-3 hrs long. We will be pottying before we get on and such, but idk how we are going to explain to her when she can’t use the potty and there will be a stranger in her row (we are sitting two and two since we have two young children) Any suggestions are appreciated. We’ve tried most pull up brands