I'm a 30F. All of my peers are childless by choice. Most of my friends are so negative about children or "hate kids" and go on and on about how people shouldn't have kids in this day and age. Even my older coworkers with kids are like "I'm so glad I don't have young kids in today's world" and constantly drone about how it will only get harder the older they get.

How do you cope with such negativity. I'm constantly feeling guilty for having kids (5 yo and 3yo). But I can't *undo* having children now that they're already here!

I feel like a shit person for deciding to have kids "in today's world" like I am a bad person for deciding to do so.