I saw this movie on an airplane sometime between 2005-2010

It was either an East Asian film, or a film with a cast that was mostly East Asian. It was about the difficult relationship that a young woman has with her mother. I think it might've also looked at other parent-child relationships but I'm not 100%.

There's two distinct scenes I remember. In the first, the daughter has brought over her white boyfriend for dinner. The daughter really wants her mother to like and approve of him. But when they are eating the dinner the mother cooked, the boyfriend says it could use more/less salt, and this ruins the mood of the meal.

In the second scene, the daughter is exasperated with her mother and breaking down, and pointing out various things about herself that her mother wont acknowledge. She pulls out a strip of condoms and holds them up for her mother to see, and says something basically telling her to acknowledge them. After she's freaked out, the mother says that she does actually like the boyfriend