I have been trying to figure out the name of this movie I saw on TV a long time ago (probably 15 years ago). It could have been a made for TV movie. But it is basically the story of this guys life, I remember him being pretty unlikable, short, a bit of a jerk etc. The only thing I am 100% certain of is a joke made about his gf/fiance/new wife. They are sitting around in a bedroom and he asks her for a BJ and she asks "did you wash it" or "you washed it, right?" something to that effect. The joke being she is very prude and stuck up about things. FYI it was a play on her already established personality, not a suggestion that asking for clean dick makes you prude.

Anyways that is just a minor thing that happens before a scene cut. In terms of plot I don't remember much except that at the end he dies an old man and I think the movie ends with one of his ex wives and a daughter visiting his grave or something to that effect.

Lastly if it helps, I am not positive this is from the same movie, but I believe the movie makes a few references to the urban legend of a scuba diver being picked up in a lake by one of those helicopter firefighters. Basically this if you've never heard of it: https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/corpus-crispy/