I remember watching this show in my college years so sometime 2012-? I dunno if it's still running but there's a group of guys or girls in this room, waiting and talking to the host. Depending on if it's guys, then the contenders will females. For the sake of understand this convoluted explanation, we are going with this scenario. Girls come up to the door of home and ask to be buzz in. If guys agree on what they see/request of the girls to do, girls will be invited into the living room. After there's enough people (say the group was 4-5, girls equal or have some more people) Host and contestants/guys will start narrowing girls down. Eventually there are a bunch of mini dates and so on and so forth until there's 1 girl/1guy left and then they'll go on a final date. In this situation (because the guy started) he will go by the pool outside the house and wait to see if she still picks him (sometimes things can go 'wrong' on the final date that make the contenders NOPE out of there), if she still likes him, they meet at the pool to start dating, or she can get out of the house and drive away. There was also this red X, I'm sure that's the signature logo for this tv show. Something about you've been X/crossed out?