Edit: Good morning! Before I go and be an adult I will say this,

1) The post has made my partners morning and he enjoyed reading the comments. I will show bf when he wakes up.

2) I should invest in a good villager outfit and throw potatoes/carrots/bread at them. Joking aside, they both said what some of you said, to be direct "Sex. Now"

3) my partner asked if I need a 3rd guy. Could you imagine if I got a 3rd and all 3 of them sat down playing Minecraft. I should just join a monastery. Partner just said I should build it on Minecraft.

4) They are awesome, amazing men and I am soo lucky to have them in my life. This whole weird thing only works because of how respectful and supportive they are of eachother.

6) thank you kind strangers for the awards 💙☺️

Have a good day Reddit.

Background: I have a long term partner and a boyfriend of over a year. My partner is on the asexual spectrum. We're really good together except for the bedroom. He was never this bad when we started but his drive got lower and lower till it was a few times a year. This was causing resentment on my end and frustration (form constant asking) on his end.

So, as a solution, we opened the relationship for me. My bf is really nice and he and my partner have become friends. BF and I take any opportunity we can to get intimate as we both live with other people. So either I go to his when his roommate is away or he comes to mine when I'm alone.

That brings us back to today, or should I say the past month. For my birthday I wanted to play Minecraft. BF didn't like the game. He made it clear it's not his kind of game, and made it clear he's playing it cause of us.

We started playing, all three of us. At first when we'd get alone time and we'd spend it playing Minecraft I didn't think too much of it. But when I sat there throwing hints, saying 'everyone will be back in 2hrs', and then playing bedroom songs, and he still wasn't moving, I knew I fucked up. My partner had come home by then and by this point I said, "fuck it, I'm taking care of myself" and went upstairs.

Currently, the two of them are downstairs playing Minecraf and I've gone back to being in a relationship with my toys. I fucked up Reddit, I fucked up.

Good night

TLDR: asexual partner let me have a bf for sex, and now the two of them spend their free time playing Minecraft together.