Hey y'all. I just wanted to throw out a message to all the long-time people in our sub or the many lurkers who prefer not to post/comment.

While I admittedly chose the worst time in recent human history (about two years ago when the pandemic will still going strong) to start getting involved in the community and looking for a session, I can now safely say that I've finally had my first session just last night. I won't go into too much detail about what went down, but I was successfully able to have a solid and wholesome three hour session (I always had doubts when people spoke about tickling sessions being almost like a workout - holy hell it all makes sense now).

To anyone who's been around in this sub for a while and still hasn't had their first time: don't give up. Over the past two years, I've had chats with many people - most of which have come and gone for one reason or another, but some I made friends with and still talk to today. I know this message is moreso directed at M Lers, since there's hundreds of us compared to the Lees out there (of either gender), but I really can't emphasize it enough: be patient and respectful with everyone you talk to. You may not vibe with everyone and that's okay, but you should always be mindful of another person's boundaries and place their best interests at heart. Sure it might suck to miss connections, have things not work out or just in general feel alone or unwanted - I know, I've been there - but you'll never get what you want if you give up or disrespect others.

And to all the lurkers out there (especially the girls) - it's okay to be worried about putting yourself out there or be concerned for your safety (while there's loads of cool people in our sub, there's also plenty of weirdos as well). Frankly, don't change a thing - be selective and find someone who is right for you. Sure, it'll take time, but you'll thank yourself later when you find someone who you can get along great with and just have some good, clean fun - session or not.

Anyway, sorry for the wall of text. I just wanted to say something after being a part of this community for quite some time. My post probably sounds sorta cringe, but I do feel like it's good to let people know that sometimes things do indeed work out.