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How are things going with our monthly Personals thread? Have they served you well?
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Hey y'all, we've had our monthly Personals Meta threads going for nearly a year now. Right from the get-go, they've been a GREAT addition to our sub, if for no other reason than keeping our sub clean of threads where people are just advertising themselves. This means our sub has mostly consisted of discussions, media sharing and OC (just the way it should be).

But I've also been curious about how successful the Personal Metas have been for people. Did they help you find anyone to work with or help establish and lasting connections? Or maybe you just feel like you're shouting into the void? I thought it would be interesting to hear everyone's reaction to how it's been working out for them so far.

After voting, feel free to share your thoughts and opinions.

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I have been posting there pretty much monthly since they’ve been a thing. I actually have had a session come out of it… but honestly it does feel like shooting into the void lately. Maybe because all the F ads just get inevitably upvoted and I feel like most others (mine included) end up getting buried because of it.

I’m sorry if I come off bitter, I’m really not because I know that the above is kind of inevitable. It does get disheartening sometimes, but at the same time I see it as relatively low-stakes so I just shrug it off.

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Very true! For what it’s worth I voted for the top option, the had a session out of it option because it’s the truth.

And honestly, I feel like that’s just kind of the way it goes with kinks online. Cis-Het Male Doms/Tops/Lers er cetera, I feel, are typically the majority. That does however mean it’s a different problem for different people. For Lers, the problem is hoping to find a Lee that you can click with while making yourself stand out from the tons of others. From the Lee’s point of view the problem is that you’re being overwhelmed by the amount of Lers vying for attention. One is a problem of quantity, the other is a problem of quality.

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