Hey y’all so I guess this is just a dump post, but I’d met a guy on fetlife a little while ago, really connected ( & I mean the first time we talked on the phone we went on for 2 hrs before getting to actual names). But everything seemed to be going well, we’d moved things over to snapchat ( how we spoke otp) & would message each other back & forth throughout the days & usually talk otp in yhe evenings since we were both night owls. Suddenly after planning our session for this Friday and building up all this tension for it ( more-so on his part being that I’m the lee). And I will add that during one of our talks he wanted to tell me something about himself so that I could get a better sense of him, ( now that I think about it I think he just needed to vent to an outside ear- which is fine) and said prior that it’d take like 45 to go through…. Welp he ended up venting for 2 straight hours… But after still talking & all the built up tension, he just went ghost this past Friday. I’m hoping all is well with him, but in my defense this isn’t the first time this has happened to me. I mean we had planned the day, place, etc. I’ll add that I’m also traveling this weekend l, hence why we scheduled. I sent my last message today stating that if I don’t hear from him my tomorrow (5 days since I’ve heard from him by then) that I’ll go ahead & make other plans for that day while I’m traveling… Just wanted to see what some of you guys thought ‘cause I don’t feel I’m crazy or in the wrong. Thoughts?