i’m in a loving throuple - we’ve been together nearly two years and we live together now. they’ve been married nearly a decade despite all of us being young (i’m 7 years younger, 27 and 34).

i’m not oblivious that this is a situation i’d be in, them married and me.. not. sometimes i couldn’t give a shit and sometimes it really makes me upset that i’ll never be legally married even if we do a ceremony and i wear a ring. i’m not sure how to decipher my values and what it is about not being legally married that makes me upset, and therefore i don’t know how to “feel better!” they want to make me feel loved in every possible way, and it’s hard to say “you can’t fix this.” that’s true, but any help on how to navigate these feelings would be great