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Hello, hoping to get some experienced throuple relationship advises. I (M) met a couple (MM) 3 months ago online and they’ve been together for 10 years. I’m their 3rd « throuple » but the previous ones did not last very long. They only play together, and are exploring the possibility of a poly relationship. They say they’re happy they’ve finally found the one (me) and have declared their love for me. Been very good with communicating our needs and boundaries since the get go, and they’ve shared with me that they’d been working on rebuilding their trust as one of the couple (let’s call him A) had previously (several years ago) cheated on the other one (let’s call him B), multiple times. So there was a bit of a friction between them recently when A had joined me in the shower while B was still in bed, and when A had asked me to stick around for a bit after B had left for work. The issue is clearly the insecurity of B based on trust issues with A, which I totally get it, but I have a hard time not wanting to make out with either of them alone or doing anything sexual while the second one is not around… so obviously I’ll respect the boundaries and not fool around with them individually, but I dont know how much longer I can go without getting to know them individually, and spending time / being intimate with each of them separately. Has any throuple here had a similar situation? And how did you handle it? Do you think there’s a way they could meet me half way? What could I do to help them rebuild their trust? I really want to make this work bc I’ve never been so attracted and inspired by two individuals at the same time, and it would be such a shame to abandon such a potentially enriching and loving relationship.
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