Hi! I wanted to share about bit about my current situation with the world, just to get it off my chest.

I'll start off with the disappointing bit: we're not a throuple. (Yet?)

My gf and I have been dating for 4 years. It's going well. Prior to us dating, I had a situationship with her best friend from high school. It never turned into anything and before we started dating we even got her blessing so that there wouldn't be anything odd between us.

Fast forward to today: my gf and I moved abroad together and her bestie visits us often, very often, her excuse being how much she loves to spend time with us two.

When she's here, we eat together, cozy up with wine and a movie, play video games, go out, etc. a few times my gf explicitly told me to "take her out on a date" just me and her while she's here since she's been single for a while and she "should see what she's missing out on".

There hasn't been anything more between us. To be honest the sexiest thing that's happened is we like to pretend like we're only "accidentally" playing footsie while we cozy up under a blanket for a movie or during breakfast, under the table, but still. When she's here I'm the happiest and so is my gf and so is our friend too. I wish this could turn into a permanent thing because the three of us are just so happy together.