Hey all!

Looking for some advice and maybe a sprinkling of hope. We are pretty introverted and especially have no interest in swingers parties or the rest. We’ve been looking online for about a week now and have had almost zero luck in finding a third for our relationship. We’ve been super clear in what we want and don’t mind if it’s a slow burn, but hoping to get some advice from you guys as to what we should be doing to ensure we find the right unicorn for us.

For what it’s worth we are both 27, male and female, both bisexual but only looking for a female(per her request) and we are in Sydney, Australia. I’m almost wondering if our location is what’s hindering us? As some of the American R4R sites are quite active with both couples and unicorns.

We are specifically looking for something more than just sex or a fling. We want to do coupley things too, whilst still maintaining a level of independence.

Any advice welcomed!