Hi there, I made a post earlier a couple of months back, but I'd like to make a more coherent one today. How does a new to this couple go about successfully building a throuple without being sleezy or unicorn hunting? My husband and I have been together for 16 years, and because we are confident in our relationship and our love for eachother, have decided to open things up to a 3rd woman because I am much more attracted to women than men, but we don't want to be gross about this. I have told him he is free to look for someone, and he has told me the same, but how do we go about this respectfully to each other and to the 3rd person?