Thanks for reading our ad.

At this stage in our life, we are looking to see what we can do to bring some color to our vanilla (but happy) life. We are new to this idea, we've talked about it and decided we'd like to take a small step to see how comfortable we are before taking things further. We have discussed and fantasized about this and have finally decided to give it a try..

What we are looking for: A man who would be interested in making out with the mrs. No contact between the men, this is all about her. Someone who can understand boundaries, and ask before anything. Consent is sexy for her. She likes tall (she's almost 6ft), fit (doesnt have to be built, just toned), clean shaven men with no tattoos, and very little body hair. A sense of humor would be good, because you do need to chat her up and flirt when we do meet.

You should be understanding that this is our first time, and this is something that will define how we proceed in the future. Play your cards right and this could become a regular thing or go further if she is comfortable. Age preferably between 30 and 50

Not looking someone who feels they are "alpha" or a "bull". We're not looking for any sort of power play here. Also not looking for someone who has multiple partners.

Hubby will be present, mainly watching and making sure she is comfortable. This is all about her.

Even though she is in her 40s, she has an absolutely stunning body. She loves to dress up and will dress up for you, if you feel like opening a Christmas present.

I will initially be reviewing the responses, chatting with people who I feel she may be interested in and discussing with her. We can chat and if she likes you, I can add her into the conversation.

** To be completely open, we both have hsv2. Both of us have been asymptomatic for years and she is on medication. If you understand and would like to respond, please send me a dm.