During her victory party when she won re-election she said something like “my man just won the democratic primary” or something. But she calls him her man.

I always took it as they starting kind of hooking up again here and there. And then she gets pregnant and it gets more serious. I never took it as it was a planned pregnancy. Which is why he’s trying to get her tomarry him and she’s resisting. It was just like a low key when they did it thing. But they do love each other and she’s wanted a kid for such a long time and they had tried so hard in the past that it probably seemed like an ironic miracle of sorts. So she’s keeping it. But she doesn’t want to marry Toby. Because while she did love him, she didn’t want to spend her life with him.

So yes not dating as in, in a committed relationships. But I imagined there were long nights over drinks or cooking with each other sometimes and spending the night. Clearly they were sleeping together since she’s pregnant.

IVF doesn’t make sense with their or story or history.

Sometime after the first year before they end do the first term they just sorta started dating again on the low key.