I have some stuff all twisted up with sex I want to work out. I don't know what kind/level/focus person to help me with this. Online would be super. I don't even know whether a psychiatrist or just a good knowledgeable person with empathy would be appropriate, or what in between.

Regardless, it's become clear to me that early on sex and stress relief became associated, and I want to tease out and defuse that even more. Being bi I didn't accept, sex was taboo, and it still feels odd sometimes. I want to get that whole sexual identity thing teased out and more comfortable. There are other things. I don't know that I'm unusual, I just want to grow out of where I've been.

Suggestions or harassment welcome. Thanks.