I had transference some time ago and felt felt guilt because of my overwhelming emotions and sexual high for my Therapist. Since then, I have talked about it and realize it’s common. So I stopped feeling guilty about it since it tapered down.

I don’t feel romantic nor any illusions of getting together with my Therapist but he does occupy a good amount of my thoughts and how I enjoy the sessions because of feeling safe and secure. But I’m starting to feel guilty again. I’m married, my husband won’t understand. I did tell him about getting turned on but my Therapist once.

I do jerk occasional thinking about my Therapist.

How do you married people deal with guilt?