My wife wants me to see a therapist. Not sure yet if she's aiming towards therapy just for me or couples. I understand why. I'm not the same person I was when we met. I'm closed off and I've reverted to who I was when I lived with my parents. I'm willing to go talk with someone to help me/ us out cause I want us to work. My problem is that I really feel like she's already on her way out. I should be afraid of us failing but I'm honestly more scared that I'm gonna put in the work (which means probably a lot of money) and it'll all be for nothing. She tells me that if I better myself it won't be for nothing even if we still end up separated. Anybody ever been in a similar situation?? Our (my) biggest issue is communication. If I am havin trouble takin to my wife how hard is it gonna be to be open with someone I don't know??