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I don't understand why places like Brazil or Colombia are recommended to black men, when those societies hate them more than anywhere eles in the States. Your experience going to these countries could be completely different once you go outside these red lights districts. As a dark skinned black guy to many women I'm ether rejected outright or treated as a dirty secret only used for fun, but never to be taken seriously.
I see this with the general vibe the locals gave me when walking with the mean mugging, especially little things like always forgetting my order compared to my white friends when ordering food, or the women only smiling at my white friends and completely dead pan with me. Even my friend ( who understands Portuguese) was surprised by the racial slurs they were calling me in their language and he even pointed out the huge difference in treatment ( so this isn't in my head) we traveled to São Paulo, Porto Alegre and Rio de Janeiro.
The reason why these countries are so popular with black men is due to them just paying for the box or flexing their money with the poor women ( an advanced beta bucks) with them not knowing the language or culture it's easy for them to be taken advantage of. Now I am not saying that no Brazilian or Colombian will like you as a black guy, because me and my other friends did pick up women, but just don't expect it to be like a white guy or even a very lightskin guy. The differences in attention and quality is staggering. ( even the local black Brazilians agreed with me when I pointed this out to them. In those places a 5/10 white guy is more desirable than a 8/10 black dude.
The alternative I have is, if your not above a 6/10 stick to black countries in the Caribbean or if you can afford it africa. Yes these women also love white men, but you won't flat out be rejected, and at least you can find true love/acceptance. If your above a 6 go to the whiter Latin American countries like Chile and Uruguay. White isn't special there so you would be considered exotic with not much negative association with you due to a lack of historical history with members of your race. Very white European countries ( for the same reasons as Uruguay and Chile) and south east Asia does work also if your into Asian women
Overall I think people here need to be realistic and stop selling dreams, at the end if you have a fantastic experience in Colombia and Brazil and your black more power to you. This is just a warning on what you'll expect as a person who traveled to 15 Latin American countries.
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