Not only do I date older married men because I enjoy the lack of commitment and the rush of doing something forbidden but it's also something a bit darker...

Have any other women here decided to finally take plunge because wives have always unnecessarily felt threatened by you?

There have been too many instances where just by merely existing or walking into the room the wife would be mean to me because she felt I would be a threat.

There have been so many times that I've diminished myself or even downright tried to make myself unattractive (not brushing my teeth, not combing my hair, no eye contact, eating away from the couple at dinner) and I STILL receive the brunt of the wife's insecurity. It's been at networking meetings, dinner parties, and at my job. Even husbands that were flirty, I would ALWAYS ignore their advances

I got tired of it...

Finally, I decided "I've already done the time and received the stares, punishment, outcasting and criticism, why not do the crime?"

It's very sadistic, but it's where I'm at right now. I know I may feel different when I'm married or I may have an open marriage because I understand that humans have multiple sexual desires.

But It's just annoying we NEVER EVER look at the husband and give him evil stares of warning...don't stare at me Mrs.Davids look at your husband and hold HIM accountable. You've already convicted me of a crime I haven't committed! What is misogyny perpetuated by women called?

Anyways,

"You can lead a horse to water but the horse decides to drink..." direct your anger at the horse not the water wives...if wasn't me it would be another woman...