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Welcome to The Bucket List.
Iāve seen a lot of information / misinformation and potentially unsafe guidance flying around different groups on here so thought I would make a post.
The main thing to consider before you go on your quest to make sandcastles is that every person is different. Every body is different. Some will stretch easier than others, some will snap back and some wonāt.
There are several factors beyond genetics which will / can influence results, including; hole of choice, frequency, size, how fast you go up in size and how toned your pelvic floor is.
Especially if you are āyoungā (under 25) and even if not, I would suggest reading up as much as you can on other peopleās experiences (as given by women, and not a partner who is fixated on living his fantasies out through her) and the role of your pelvic floor.. Before diving in to what could become a permanent modification.
Especially if you go too fast, too hard, you are potentially making changes to your body that arenāt reversible.
Whilst some women can mount a nuclear warhead and then still enjoy / cum / get off from PIV, there are some that canāt and will never really āfeelā a dick again. This is reality and anyone who argues otherwise is ignorant to it.
Go slow. Listen to your body. Donāt let men ever make you do anything you are not totally comfortable with. If your partner has thrown you into this without any awareness, and you donāt want to continue, please communicate this to them and if they wonāt listen and continue, that is abuse. Leave immediately or seek help.
If any women want to share personal experiences below, please do. Itās more useful to hear about any bad ones (clearly there are many more good ones and people who are obsessed with it).
The world has been hyper sexualised as a result of the internet and prevalence of porn, and Iām not sure whether thatās a good or bad thing š¤·āāļø. Clearly thereās a lot that hasnāt been explored and that has been repressed in human sexuality.
Just be mindful of your fantasies, and the way that men can be (physically forceful). There is a lot of unconsciousness, trauma, shame, guilt and anger wrapped around sex and sexuality.
I never thought this group would get so big. Any suggestions on keeping it safe are welcome along with links to useful info. I try to keep shit out of the group, but canāt catch everything. Still looking for another mod or two and ideally women who are more experienced.
Iāll pin the post but please upvote to help make sure itās seen.
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