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For context ā In December of last year, I found out that not only was he sexting like 4 other women, he had one of them come visit him in his hotel room during an out of town conference. Heād been planning to fuck her for weeks in advance; heād even told his therapist about it, who ofc told him it was a bad idea.
I tried to make it work, on the basis that he would be 100% open and honest with me, allowing me to go through his phone if I needed to. Iām not the type of person who likes to do stuff like that, so I hadnāt asked to until a few nights ago. I just had this intuitive feeling that I should check. He refused, swearing up and down that he had nothing to hide, but it was about the principle of āprivacyā. I packed my shit and left right then.
These were our texts the next day, and we broke things off over the phone. Iām not sure I would have been able to do it in person. I love him incredibly, and crumble whenever he starts crying. I know I shouldnāt, but I feel badā¦
Any reassurance of my decision would be immensely helpful!
Thatās what heās counting on, you feeling bad enough for him that youāll eventually just put up with whatever he wants to do anyway, just because you love him. Love isnāt enough for a relationship to work, you need to have trust, respect and honesty and you have none of those things with him. You absolutely did the right thing.
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