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Guy(M27) texts me (F26) on New Yearās Day of this year, while I was out with my family. Hadnāt heard from him since late 2022/very beginning of 2023 so I deleted his number thread from my phone & removed him from social media since he expressed mutual interest in me but then much later on he said he wasnāt sure if he was looking for a relationship , yet started dating another woman a short while after. He also was very sexual with his conversations with me but still would have conversations with me about the kind of love & integrity he wanted in a relationship. He & I never dated & never hooked up (for reference). We just ātalkedā as potential partners & spoke as old acquaintances from knowing each other in school all that time. No clue if heās still dating the other individual or not, but when he texted me on New Yearās Day, I was under the impression that maybe he texted me wanting to be friends again but I guess not lol š¤. The reason why I responded the day after his message was because I was still on holiday, not intentionally to be rude or petty. When I texted him that last message that you see at the bottom, he never responded back to this day.
Abit of background: He & I met in highschool back in 2011 & had the same classes together every single year until we graduated in 2015. We did ātalkā for abit our junior year , but it never went anywhere. After 2015, we never hung out but always kept eachother on social media. Towards the end of 2022, I decided to express an interest in him & he was surprised but expressed it back. We talked for abit & then the story leads on to what I wrote at the top lol.
Itās totally cool if nothing ever happened with either of us dating the other. I never thought it ever got that serious at all, but I canāt help but feel like heās intending to just play games? On a somewhat friendly level, something didnāt really sit right with him not responding back. As if he was originally just trying to see if he could try hooking up with me on New Year but I also donāt want to assume. What do you think? Since that was the vibe that I got , I blocked him on Instagram since he still sees my posts & stories, even though we donāt follow each other anymore. This year, I really donāt have any interest in dealing with situations like these. Itās so played out. Was I right to move forward?
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