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Did I do wrong or right by moving forward?
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Guy(M27) texts me (F26) on New Yearā€™s Day of this year, while I was out with my family. Hadnā€™t heard from him since late 2022/very beginning of 2023 so I deleted his number thread from my phone & removed him from social media since he expressed mutual interest in me but then much later on he said he wasnā€™t sure if he was looking for a relationship , yet started dating another woman a short while after. He also was very sexual with his conversations with me but still would have conversations with me about the kind of love & integrity he wanted in a relationship. He & I never dated & never hooked up (for reference). We just ā€œtalkedā€ as potential partners & spoke as old acquaintances from knowing each other in school all that time. No clue if heā€™s still dating the other individual or not, but when he texted me on New Yearā€™s Day, I was under the impression that maybe he texted me wanting to be friends again but I guess not lol šŸ¤“. The reason why I responded the day after his message was because I was still on holiday, not intentionally to be rude or petty. When I texted him that last message that you see at the bottom, he never responded back to this day.

Abit of background: He & I met in highschool back in 2011 & had the same classes together every single year until we graduated in 2015. We did ā€œtalkā€ for abit our junior year , but it never went anywhere. After 2015, we never hung out but always kept eachother on social media. Towards the end of 2022, I decided to express an interest in him & he was surprised but expressed it back. We talked for abit & then the story leads on to what I wrote at the top lol.

Itā€™s totally cool if nothing ever happened with either of us dating the other. I never thought it ever got that serious at all, but I canā€™t help but feel like heā€™s intending to just play games? On a somewhat friendly level, something didnā€™t really sit right with him not responding back. As if he was originally just trying to see if he could try hooking up with me on New Year but I also donā€™t want to assume. What do you think? Since that was the vibe that I got , I blocked him on Instagram since he still sees my posts & stories, even though we donā€™t follow each other anymore. This year, I really donā€™t have any interest in dealing with situations like these. Itā€™s so played out. Was I right to move forward?

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