Trying out open LS with wife ,now only thing that caught me by surprise is her kink she confessed.somehow the idea and actions of sneaking around on eachother without other knowing is what excites and gets her wet .I was confused due to fact that it sounds like she gets off on cheating. I tried to work with her as far as understanding goes and we tried with rules and boundaries in place.sadly enough she broke every rule and then came home in am sending me vids of her night having me reclaim her but ignore any conversations about her breaking the rules and guidelines in place. Turns out she ended up relapsing on her drug of choice and I'm having hard time getting her to stay home or at least be attentive to our kids if not me .what I hate is I actually got excited and hard watching the vids of my wife slut around ,I am open to LS ,but idk how I feel about being lied to it's one thing to keep it hidden but it's another to lie , because of the relapse she has yet to sober back up longer then a couple days .we try and talk but she just tells me we should do what we want and ends with her running and just repeating her choices .all that being said if she really gets off on that I'm at the point I need to find a women for NSA fwb that wouldn't mind playing having fun recording for wife to see later .I can't make her quit the drugs but that doesn't mean I should stand still while she enjoys herself in the LS experience while I maintain house care for kids and work just to be neglected by her. I think I should start taking part . Any thoughts or opinions, I'm open .