My girlfriend has been going through a lot recently, and I do not know how to react. She lost two family members this time last year. It seems like she’s taking it out on me. She’s been listing everything she thinks I’ve ever done wrong, and I think she is over reacting. I’ve always been there for her and we have always helped cheer each other up. This time it just feels like she’s shutting me out. She’s hinting that a relationship may not be right for her right now, but she’s been really torn up about us for the last several days. I think she wants to be together but it’s just hard right now for her. I want to be there for her, but also she seems to be taking her grief out on me. I don’t know what to do.