Unfortunately earlier this week I caught my gf cheating with some other guy. I was going through her messages seeing my contact just to be curious what my name was and I was just the basic government name. I scrolled a bit more just of curiosity since I’ve trusted her for a while now and was pretty sure she wasn’t hiding anything since she lets me go through her phone without hesitation. I saw a contact message thread that said “Larry the Lobster 🏋️‍♂️” and when I opened the messages my heart dropped. There were messages that consisted of “I like how wet you were”, “you took all of it like a good girl” “am I better than your bf” and I was instantly shattered. I quickly exited out because I didn’t her to see that I found out about him, so I quickly found an excuse to leave 10 mins later so the timing wouldn’t align. When I got home I texted her what I found out, seen, and told her I don’t want to continue in this relationship anymore. She spammed my phone with calls and begging me to reply and call her back but I stood my ground and told her “no go to Larry the lobster I’m not your guy anymore” I blocked her on everything and she still found a way to contact me through email. Basically we were on no contact for 3 days until she showed up at my house today and asked my mom if she could talk to me. I wasn’t home at the time but she had explained to my mom how she wanted a second chance but conveniently left out details where she messed up. My mom told me I should go and talk to her and maybe fix things because she seemed really hurt when she came in today. Has anyone experienced something like that similar I don’t really know what to do and it seems I’m stuck in a position where I’ve thankfully already started to move on but it seems like she can’t do the same.