Back in March I [25MTF] did a reading for my ex-partner [34FTM] and the deck I've used came off transphobic and very blunt. I only recently asked for clarity and it had said that my partner was "too far gone for transitioning to help".. I stuck the deck in my closet and have barely used it since then - any readings giving mixed signals even after meditating, using crystals and recharging the deck via the sun & moon.

I got a new deck in light of this and have been scared to do readings in case if I have the same problem, feel like I'm cooked and gotta do some major corrective work before doing another reading. I'm not a transphobic person by any means and everyone I know can vouch for that, yet somehow I feel like reading tarot cards is reflective of my own emotions and I was a little too selfish back then?

Looking for advice/guidance, not to be demeaned for being imperfect.