Holy cow - I (53M) just stumbled on to this sub. and think I’ve always been a pro-practitioner of tantric sex without realizing it was a thing!

How much I’ve always enjoyed slow and sensual sex, where I’m relishing every single second and using all the senses and using every part of my body to explore my partner’s body. I really never enjoyed jackhammer sex, and never could understand those people who wanted to pound through sex without savoring the full sensual experience and the spiritual connection of being with another person.

I remember being 21 in college, and loving being with late 20-something women because on average they enjoyed foreplay and slow sex as much as I did, and telling girls my own age, “Why the rush??” I hated that I fell in love and then married a woman who always wanted grinding 2-minute sex, and after my divorce I loved that I met a sensual partner (54F) who enjoys slow spiritual sex as much as I do — we sometimes have multi-hour sessions twice in a day, wherein we’d look into each other’s eyes and breathe in rhythm and massage/touch all over. I have been in such heaven, have nowhere else I’d rather be, and OMG the release of the final orgasm is unbelievable for both of us!! The tingling and full body sensation is/was unreal, an out of body experis where I thought I might disintegrate into a blast of energy. Who knew this was all actually a thing??

Anyway, I’m so excited to discover this sub. I look forward to learning and hearing more here.